Facts about love nd relationships

Love is the most precious feeling, nd it can be the worse feeling ever. Love it is almost like the process of giving. Birth to a child* from trying to conceive, giving birth, raising that child, until they are adults themselves.* same applies to relationships. 1st you go thru the hunting stage*proposing*to stage where you finally win that person's heart. And let's be clear, they say yes out of all the things we did to win their love, not because of our looks, unless if that person is one of the shallow ones*wink* now the most common thing about love and raising a child is, there is no holiday, its an everyday thing, you keep nourishing and protecting it until the end*mayb death* now imagine a child growing up without parents love and protection, I don't need to spell out what future that child will be facing, same goes for love. Now let's focus on love. The problem is people don't understand the connection between love, life and the times we are living in. As people we all need love, and let's face the truth, statically things are looking bad. The number between men and woman don't balance at all. Which leads to the cheating we are witnessing this days. Good people let's stop deceiving ourselves, TEMPTATION is real. We are all born with desires. Same desires that can build or ruin us. After all no 1 is perfect. People don't cheat because they are bored. One of the most common reasons is because of communication breaking down and not feeling appreciated by their partners, and this where problems begins, their desires will lead them to cheating. Relationships breaks down simply because couples tend to relax and stop nourishing love. Remember I said love is similar to raising a child, anything can go wrong if you don't pay attention to their needs. Try by all means to keep that candle burning, do whatever is necessary to keep your partner happy, and yes people change, and part of growing up brings this changes, but what will bring you peace in a case whereby things don't work out, you will be knowing that you didn't give them the reason to leave. If they cheat even when you did everything, well too bad, because the will be time in life when they realize that you where the best thing to them. I always says leave *karma* to deal with them. Karma has a nasty way of dealing with people who never stop rejoicing to hurt others. Love is the most beautiful feeling, as long both parties are committed, and yes the will be challenges since it includes two different individuals, but with understanding, respect, caring, honesty and loyalty, everything will be just fine. Now one last important element to remember, always use GOD as the foundation of your relationship. Everything belongs to God, and him being part of our everyday life is important. Let's not just focus on our desires, rather include him in everything we do, and let him guides us thru our lives. And remember that couples who worship God together stands a chance to happiness. Thanks and please stay blessed.